Tuesday, July 30, 2013
Can a Feminine Women Attract Any Man She Wants?
Let's speak of a hypothetical situation for awhile, shall we? :-))
Let's say you have been studying femininity for awhile. You've taken notes, written down your goals and hopes for the future and for the woman you'll become, you've worked on your shortcomings, and you've purchased many courses and books on femininity.
Although there are a great many reasons to become feminine and take on the study of femininity, for you, the ability to attract a masculine alpha male is one of the main reasons you want to learn femininity and become more feminine.
If you've truly mastered femininity and the feminine arts, can you attract any masculine alpha male you want? Specifically, the one sitting over there...?
Today, I want to speak to you a bit about the feminine woman's ability to attract masculine men and whether or not she can attract any masculine man she wants (especially a specific one she has her eyes on).
Although many readers may find themselves here because they want to be able to attract an alpha male for a husband and settle down with him, some have a certain someone in mind.
And I think that it's normal for the resourceful feminine woman to think of ways to attract the man she has her eye on. After all, sometimes we just want him to notice us and find us to be very charming and attractive women.
I just wanted to write this short post about whether or not mastering femininity would give you the ability to attract any man you want, and unfortunately it won't. :-((
What femininity can give you is a higher probability to attract masculine men in general (including him if he's masculine) and it can help you maintain attraction and passion with the man who married you.
But it can't guarantee attracting the particular man you want because no woman fits the personal taste of every single masculine man in the world.
If you uphold the general feminine traits, you'll gain the attention and admiration of more masculine men than before and most all will at least be able to say that you are an attractive woman. But to be attracted to you is different.
You might be an extremely feminine exotic and mysterious Asian goddess, but it's possible that he prefers a more bubbly, playful, and childlike femininity.
You might be a tall slender and willowy blonde with eyes like the sea, but he might prefer a woman with a regal African look.
Mastering femininity will make you attractive to masculine men in general (and will gain you the approval of your sweetie's masculine friends,) but it doesn't guarantee that the one you want will be attracted to you.
This is because within femininity there are still types. Yes, the masculine man wants a feminine woman but what kind of feminine woman does he want?
For example, I myself am of the more bubbly, playful, and childlike variety (and have been described as 'adorable' and 'a cutie', but have never been described as 'pretty') and I tend to attract masculine men who want someone who brings out their protective side and who are interested in protecting and caring for their woman but in a way that has a lot of playfulness, fun, and good times.
I could never attract a masculine man who prefers a more regal or mysterious kind of feminine because I myself am nothing near a regal or mysterious sort.
Also, once you're in his 'type,' there's such a thing as connection and attraction that happens naturally. I'm sure we've all met a masculine man who was exactly our type, yet for some reason we just didn't feel an attraction to him when he had all of the qualities we usually find ourselves drawn to.
This is because the simple chemical attraction was missing. Just because he has all of the qualities you usually are drawn to and you have all of the qualities that he's usually drawn to, doesn't mean that you'll have chemistry or an emotional connection.
Well, that's all for this short post. I hope that it made you think further about your hopes and how to plan for what you desire. :-))