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I hope that all of you who are living with me here on the east coast of the United States are staying warm -- a snowstorm came about last night and only ceased this morning, so it's safe to say that I'm feeling very chilly right about now! :-)
Today, I'd like to speak to you about the importance of *intelligence* when it comes to becoming a feminine and elegant lady.
So often on this site, I speak to you about the specifically feminine attributes of gentleness, kindness, sympathy, respect for masculinity, grace, and warmth -- but it's important to not forget intelligence!
After all, the goal of this site is not to become feminine women, but feminine women of substance! *smile*
A woman who respects masculinity and upholds the qualities of grace, warmth, kindness, and gentleness is a lovely creature already, dove -- but not nearly as valuable and miraculous as a woman with those feminine qualities who pairs them with culture, sophistication, intelligence, and wit!
No high-value man or woman wants as their romantic partner or friend a woman with pretty and feminine face, and nothing else!
And although a feminine heart is truly a lovable quality to have (and puts a feminine woman a step above many), without a sharp and cultured mind and worldview, it lacks depth and longterm interest.
A feminine face and heart are lovely, but not spectacular unless they are paired with an excellent mind, my darling. *smile*
The mind of a high-value feminine lady must be one that is:
Sophisticated;
Cultured;
Liberal and Open;
Informed;
Intellectual (a woman who likes to think of ideas);
Applicable;
Of all feminine women, all of them have feminine hearts that inject their demeanor with gentleness, grace, love, warmth, and receptivity -- so what sets you apart? What stops you from being lost in the crowd of feminine women, lovely?
A feminine woman of true value, substance, and excellence must have a mind that's as strong and sharp as her heart is feminine and "yin"!
What's the use for a friend who can't hold an intelligent conversation, no matter how feminine her heart is? What's the use for a wife who can't challenge her brilliant and masculine husband's mind and keep him fascinated and intrigued intellectually (not to mention, never bored mentally)?
The mind of a feminine woman of substance and value must be informed and cultured, must be open to new schools of thought (as feminine women are open, accepting, and receptive), and, despite all of its cultural knowledge and sophistication, must also have practical knowledge that can be applied to life! *smile*
For those of you who are interested in pursuing masculine high-value men, my dears, this is also incredibly important!
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Do you think that Prince William was attracted to Catherine Middleton's beauty over all else, dove?
Think again!
When Prince William and Catherine Middleton first met, this was before her tone-up of her figure and her more elegant wardrobe.
Catherine Middleton was in no way an unattractive duckling, lovely, but she wasn't the kind of woman a man was attracted to for her looks, either -- and remember that the future King of England could have chosen any woman he wanted!
However, Catherine Middleton and Prince William first became acquainted as friends at St. Andrew's University in Scotland which is when he became acquainted with her intelligence, her articulation, her history as Valedictorian of her prestigious high school, and her top caliber educational history -- and it was she who convinced him to not drop out of university!
Do you think that Prince William would have chosen a woman on the *average* scale of physical attractiveness, darling, if she didn't have a fine mind?
Absolutely not! *smile*
Of course, Prince William first became attracted to Catherine Middleton for her *intelligence* -- and didn't miss out on her other physical attributes as she moved out of her awkward university stage and into womanhood. ;-)
Catherine Middleton (now Duchess of Cambridge) is a perfect example of the *importance of intelligence*! *smile*
Other women who used their femininity to be lethally attractive to masculine men were the legendary *Japanese geisha*, who knew the potency that came with pairing to together femininity and intelligence/wit!
The Japanese geisha utilized their intelligence in a few different ways when it comes to attracting masculine men:
Thank you so much for reading my article, "The Importance of Intelligence" -- to read the rest of the article and access more articles on attracting masculine men through femininity, purchase a subscription to my private blog, "The Feminine Woman Masculine Men Adore"!
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2 comments:
I would just like some clarification on what you mean by "Liberal"? I am striving to be feminine in all aspects of my life and appreciate your blog a ton!
Hi Anonymous!
But "liberal," I mean that I strive to be open-minded and non-judgmental. I believe in people having the right to how they choose their lives and respecting their choice and not looking down on them, even if it's not what I might have chosen for myself.
For example, I personally don't believe in living together before marriage. However, I have friends who do and I respect their choice and don't look down on them or judge them, it's just not what I would have chosen for myself. :-)
Sincerely,
Nina
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