Super Sale - Last 24 Hours

This sale is now closed -- thanks so much to everyone who made 2012 so great. Here's to the New Year!

Feminine Hair - Part II; Caring For Hair

Hello, dear reader!

Welcome to Part II of my Feminine Hair series. In Part I of the series I spoke to you about feminine hairstyles and in this part, I'd like to speak to you about taking care of your feminine locks.

Our hair is a great way for us to show off our femininity, darlings, which is why I spent Part I discussing feminine hairstyles -- but what good does a feminine hairstyle do in showing off your femininity if you make no effort to maintain it?

One of the most important parts of femininity is appearing *healthy* which is why it's so important for us to make sure that we are taking proper gentle care of our strands.

The Femininity and Elegance of the Japanese Woman

Good morning, darling!

Do you enjoy looking at inspiration for femininity in other places and other cultures? Do you find yourself enchanted with foreign women or foreign ways of doing things -- thinking that they're *exotic* or new and different?

Attraction to the exotic is a very human thing; both that and my love of studying other cultures makes me adore looking for femininity inspiration in other places. 

The Japanese women are famous for their femininity and are written about on almost all of the femininity blogs across the internet. My childhood experiences in Japan (along with other places in Asia) make me well-adept at writing about the femininity of the *angelic* Japanese women from a first hand perspective.

The Proper Lady 2012 Holiday Sale

This sale is now closed. Thanks so much to all who made 2012 so great. To the New Year!

Love,
Nina 

The Feminine Lady Behind the Throne

Hello darlings,

Are you a woman who's feminine through-and-through and in your traditional feminine humility desire the state of being more of the "woman behind the throne"? A woman who can be responsible for so much yet wishes to take so little of the credit?

If you're one of these women who desire to help your husband in all ways yet feel shy about getting all of the credit or stardom, then you share many qualities with a First Lady or a CEO's wife (and you also hold many of the qualities found in the sacred *help meets* of Buddhism, Islam, Christianity, and Judaism).

The Relationship Killer

Good morning (and Good Christmas), lovely!

Are you currently guilty of committing a relationship sin? Of performing an act known as the "relationship killer"?

2013 Products Sneak Peak

Hi Lovelies,

I'm so excited about all of the products I'm going to be releasing in the New Year that I just wanted to offer you a short sneak peak of what's to come! :)

The Kate Middleton Transformation: How She Went from Kate to Duchess of Cambridge;

Today, Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge is considered to be one of the best representations of elegance, grace, and class. However, she wasn't always a picture of what a lady should be.

Since they met in 2001, Catherine has undergone a startling transformation from just a regular young college girl (who got so nervous when meeting Prince William that she avoided him) to the Duchess of Cambridge.

In this concise guide, I discuss the changes that Kate Middleton went through to become the Duchess of Cambridge so that you can have your own Duchess of Cambridge-inspired transformation.



How Jackie Won  Jack;

Now available for pre-order at a discount...

He was the most eligible bachelor in the country: handsome, charismatic, educated at Harvard, Princeton, and Yale, and a member of the most prominent American family. He dated movie stars like Grace Kelly and Audrey Hepburn.

He could have chosen any woman he wanted yet Jackie became the only woman he ever loved.

In this inspired guide to attracting masculine man, I go into why and how Jackie became Mrs. Kennedy.





7 Days to Sophistication;

 In this concise and convenient guide, I lead you through 7 special days of culture, refinement, and sophistication, so that you can see a more sophisticated you after just one week.














Femininity Infusers;

Femininity infusers are little things that you can use to quickly and easily inject and infuse yourself with femininity.

A great and simple way to start becoming more feminine for those of you who are looking for "quick starts".

The Masculine Man's Needs - Part II

Hello, dear one!

As feminine women, we are fortunate enough to have a great advantage when it come to attracting masculine men, one that other women don't have.

This great advantage lies in our very core as our *femininity*. It might seem odd to you that our femininity is such a great advantage but just think about how few women out there are feminine -- making us the shining stars of women for men (or at least the masculine and independent men, as there will still be some men out there who are looking more for a second mother and will find what they are searching for in the blunt and aggressive women who are so abundant).

The masculine male has a few basic needs, darling, and although femininity alone does not satisfy these needs, satisfying these needs often comes more naturally to a feminine woman.

This is because feminine women like us don't see men's masculinity as something that threatens us or something that we need to compete with out of feeling threatened by it. We find that it complements us and allows us to be at our most *feminine* -- and so we are happy to meet the needs connected to his masculinity and to meet them in a way that's natural and effortless. :-)

One of the best ways to attract someone (and to make them want to marry us) is to meet one of their important needs, to satisfy one of the needs that they can't get satisfied with almost any other woman. 

How to Perfect Airbrush Makeup

Natural Beauty Remedies: Honey

 Hello, my feminine lovelies!

In our efforts to become femininely *beautiful*, we often try out a large number of products and potions, as if on the hunt for the product that contains that one "magical ingredient" that changes our lives -- or at least our beauty regimens! ;-))

 But many of the products from the drugstores that we apply on our faces often either do not work or worse, irritate our faces due to harsh chemicals. Many of us find the same problem from certain products in department stores, despite the prestigious and fancy names like Kiehl's or Sisley (not meaning to bash Kiehl's, as many of their products actually work beautifully on me -- although many of my friends get horrible allergic reactions from their skincare).

Plus, I once got many free samples of a $200 eye cream from Sisley and used it every night for more than two months (one month is when you're supposed to start seeing results) and it didn't work -- so why spend vulgar amounts of money when oftentimes, nature is truly the best (and the most inexpensive) dermatologist and beautician? :-))

Why Having Children Hurts Attraction (And What You Can Do About It)

Hello, my lovelies!

If you're like me, a feminine woman of a more *traditional* sort, you either already have children or hope to have them one day with a masculine man of good character who you care for very much.

Children are some of the greatest blessings that the universe can place in our laps and they truly are the future of society (meaning that they are extremely important). However, they can truly cause harm to your relationship with your husband, stripping your relationship of attraction and emotional intimacy if you don't go about this time in the right and *feminine* way, darling.

Learn How Jackie Won Jack

He was the most desired bachelor. Handsome, charismatic, educated at Harvard, Princeton, and Yale, and a member of the most influential family in America, he was linked to elegant and celebrated film icons like Grace Kelly and Audrey Hepburn. 

JFK could have chosen any woman he wanted to be his wife and he made his decision to be with Jackie.

And she was not just one of his endless attractive options, but a woman about whom he had once said: "I've known a lot of attractive women throughout my lifetime but of them all there was only one I could have marrying -- and I married her."

In a letter written to his parents on his honeymoon, he thanked them for making him "worthy of her" and also wrote that he finally knew "the true meaning of rapture." 

In this inspired guide on attracting masculine men, I apply my research to tell you how Jackie won Jack's heart and became his one true love, the woman that no other woman could compare to in his eyes.

In this concise and clear guide, learn:

• Jackie Kennedy's background
• Her flirting and attraction tips and tricks
• What most men found to be most *seductive* and alluring about her
• What she had over the competition (it's not her pedigree background!)
• The Jackie Kennedy steps to making a great first impression
• The Jackie Kennedy secrets to mystery
• What techniques Jackie Kennedy and the geisha women of Japan had in common
• How to dress like Jackie Kennedy with a smaller budget
• and MORE!

Set for release on January 5th, 2013 for $19.97. Currently available for pre-order at $14.97.

If you would like to pre-order the guide for $19.97 $14.97 and save $5, use the button below:

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The Masculine Man's Needs - Part I

Hello, my darlings!

Do you have a preference for attracting a man who's very confident and secure in his masculinity? A man who'll be the masculine to your feminine, the yang to your yin?

This is what I preferred myself and why I eventually chose to settle down with an *alpha* and this is also what a lot of feminine women desire -- that's why I wrote the Guide to Alpha Program, helping you to attract your very own high-status alpha male.

One of the best ways to attract someone to the point of them wanting to commit to you and only you forever is to meet one of their basic needs.

 That's why I wrote this series on the masculine man's needs because it's a much more quick-fix way for you to attract one. What better way to attract your very own alpha male than to be the woman who meets all of his needs as a man? 

Holding Yourself like a Princess

Were you ever one of those little girls who dreamed of being a princess, sweetheart, yet soon forgot about that dream after growing up and entering the world of being an adult?

While it may be true that you are now a grown woman, an adult, what is not true is that you can't be a princess in any way. You may not be able to have a title or a crown, but you can hold yourself with the bearing of a princess!

Queen of your Home

As feminine women, I think it's safe to say that we consider ourselves to be the queens of our homes. Masculine men are just as capable of caring for a house as we are (and should be thoughtful enough to offer a hand, especially if we are sick), however when it comes to taking a house and turning it into a home, there is a certain touch that only creatures of feminine energy (feminine men and women) can offer and bring to the special task at hand.

 Today, I want to speak to you a bit on what it means to be the Queen of your Home, being a "domestic goddess", and taking care. I think that it's important to learn how to take our femininity and inject it into our home environment.

After all, it's the little feminine touches brought to his domestic environment that the masculine man so desires and so craves.

This is a sphere in which the feminine woman reigns supreme, especially if she is a feminine woman of the more *traditional* sort.

Feminine Skill: Mastering the Feminine Walk

Hello, my loves,

If you want to find yourself formed into a truly feminine woman, feminine to the core, then it's important that you also learn to move your body in a feminine manner. You can adorn yourself in the most feminine of clothing and the most feminine accessories and shoes, but regardless of your feminine look, if your style of movement is masculine, it can betray your true self instantly.

Of course, one of the most important ways to accomplish this feat is to master a feminine style of walking.

Natural Beauty Remedies: Herbal, Floral, and Milk Baths

Hello, my feminine darling! And welcome to the next installment of my Natural Beauty Remedies series.

Today, I want to tell you a bit about one of the great joys of the feminine goddess, especially of the more "exotic" and mystical sort of feminine woman who hails from the Orient and from the Pacific Islands, and something very common in Thailand where I spent a significant part of my childhood growing up.

In places like Bali, Indonesia, the Philippines, and the more rural parts of Thailand (and also a few places in Africa and the Middle East), it is believed that natural baths containing such ingredients as tea, flowers, herbs, and oils are great for one's spiritual and emotional health, not to mention one's feminine beauty.

Feminine Hair - Part I; Feminine Hairstyles

Hello, my Lovelies!

Are you on a quest to become an ideal woman, a woman feminine to the core and not afraid of the full power and magic that comes with simply being a woman?

One of the most obvious displays of femininity that you could possibly muster would be the very crown of hair on your head! Knowing this, why wouldn't you want to take advantage of it?

Natural Beauty Remedies: Tea

Photo from Cozee Teas.

Hello, my darling doves, and welcome to the first installment of my series, Natural Beauty Remedies!

Despite the convenience of commercial beauty products and the familiarity of certain brands that have become embedded in our culture, when it comes to natural beauty remedies, there are still many benefits to be had.

Although these natural remedies might seem very inconvenient in comparison to just running to the store and grabbing a product, these can often be more convenient because these are ingredients that many of us would already have on hand most of the time, anyway.

Also, it's impossible to deny the benefit of less exposure to chemicals that using natural beauty remedies offers you.

In this first installment of my series Natural Beauty Remedies, I want to discuss the many benefits that tea has to your physical femininity and feminine beauty.

Notice On All Orders of "First Steps to Femininity"

Hi Lovelies,

Please note that there will be a delay on all orders of "First Steps to Femininity." The product has become so popular that it has become impossible for me to manage all of the orders manually with the kind of system I have in place.

People are having their installments sent to them days late which is inexcusable and unprofessional and I am feeling stressed to the point that I am moving out of my feminine, which I don't want to happen (since I write about femininity!) -- please be patient with me as I put in place a more simple and efficient system. :) Thank you! ♥ ♥ ♥

Modern Lady's Challenge: Balancing Work and Family

I feel that as 21st-century women, one of the greatest challenges we face today (maybe even the greatest challenge we face today) involves balancing work and family. I was recently discussing with my friend Vanessa Halloum, fellow femininity researcher/author and fellow Feminine Soul Leader at FeminineSoul.com, the study "The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness," which basically discusses how we (women) have started to gain our rights and how today we can "have it all" yet we're significantly more unhappy today as a group than we were in the 60's when we didn't have a choice but to stay home and be traditional housewives deferring to our husbands.

Why this paradox? We should be happier now that we can be doctors, lawyers, CEOs, and politicians. We should be happy now that we can run for President and have a happy family life!

Why Most Men Don't Marry Their First Girlfriend

 Hello, Sweet Darlings!

Have you ever wondered to yourself why it takes so long for many men to commit to marriage? Do you have a friend who's been in the same relationship for years yet her beau shows no signs of desiring to make her into his beloved wife?

Staying Feminine While Living Together

Miss Dior Cherie Commercial

Hi Lovelies!

I want to thank you beauties for all of the survey responses. After less than 24 hours I already have more than 300 responses! I'm getting so many great ideas for where to take this site next so keep 'em coming! ;-)

If you haven't already, please fill it out here.

One of the requests in the survey was for me to write a product or blog post that gave some ideas on staying feminine when you live with a male romantic partner.

What Aspiring Ladies Can Learn from Marilyn Monroe

Since my early teens, I have had a strong distaste for Marilyn Monroe. There, I said it! It's not that I really had anything against her personally -- after all, she seemed like a nice enough person.

It's just that as someone who started her research on how to be a lady from a young age, let's just say that I was going for more Jackie Kennedy, Audrey Hepburn, and Grace Kelly and less of the drugs, alcoholism, overt sexual promiscuity, and pretending-to-be-stupid act that Marilyn Monroe represented. She just wasn't a ladylike role model to me (or perhaps any kind of role model to anyone) and so I didn't understand why she was such an icon.

Please Take This Survey!

I'm always up to my ears in research for TheProperLady.com but as you can see from the stack of books on my nightstand (I do my blogging and blog research on my bed!), I'm searching for valuable information in many different areas and directions.

I'm having trouble finding focus when it comes to what sort of material I should be writing for you ladies, so I'm hoping that you could help me write the most relevant material for you by filling out this quick simple survey:

Click here to go to the survey.

I don't care about your grammar or your spelling. All I hope is that you fill it out genuinely. :)

Thanks a bunch!

Love,
Nina

Feminine Strength

Hello, my doves!

Are you ready to step into your own power as a woman, with the courage of being feminine? (Sorry, I took that phrase from FeminineSoul.com!)

 Are you ready to experience the unique and unstoppable power that comes with being a woman living in her feminine?

All of the anti-femininity media that we see these days tries to paint the image of femininity to us as weakness.

We need to rise above that and be smarter than to just listen to all of that junk!

Because the feminine women that we strive to be are the most precious things in the world, living treasures, and owning a unique and gentle brand of beauty that radiates from within.